After many years of consulting with women and/or couples regarding pre-conception care, fertility, pregnancy and beyond, I am still amazed and rather puzzled – why is this so often considered a ‘girl thing’?
It is common for me to find with couples that the male partner has not been sufficiently investigated regarding both general health as well as reproductive health. In fact an inordinate number of people – not just men either – seem to have the opinion that fertility, especially inability to conceive is a matter which entirely involves the female partner.
Hello fella’s – hey aren’t you 50% of the next generation? Time to extract head from sand.
Women benefit a great deal from learning the signs and symptoms of their fertility whether this is for contraception or conception. I have found over many years that the Natural Fertility Management Kits (NFM) are an invaluable aid. These are designed for women and couples to work through at home and if there are any concerns they can make an appointment with our office as we run the Remote Natural Fertility Management assistance service. It is so empowering to know WHEN you are ovulating and what your hormonal indicators are without having to have invasive testing.
NFM kits can be obtained easily through our site http://www.rad-pads.com (see Natural Fertility category) For a one off investment you receive a lifetime of information which you can then pass on to your family when the time is right.
I have lost count of how many times couples have come to me with only half the challenge covered. Yes, certainly the woman needs to be well and have good hormonal balance and any health risks assessed minimised. But so too do men. In addition it can take over three months to BEGIN to positively affect mens fertility, as this is how long it takes for sperm formation to occur.
It is so rewarding when I am assisting potential parents to understand that each party can benefit individually and as a couple for taking responsibility for their own areas of health, especially reproductive health.
In a consultation and often a series of consultations with prospective parents, we often need to consider for all parties such things as:
- Toxic burden – such as toxic metal exposure, chemical exposure other toxin exposure
- Gut, liver, kidney and pancreas health
- Hormonal status – not just oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone, but adrenal, thyroid, para-thyroid hormones.
- Health history and family health history
- Medications – are these affecting ability to conceive?
- Dietary considerations
- Lifestyle
- Stress levels.
- Infections – especially reproductive.
- Occupation.
- Attitudes and philosophies around reproductive health and life in general.
There are a number of tests which can be performed both with the assistance of your doctor and/or with the guidance of your naturopath/herbalist. It is important that the practitioner is skilled in interpretion of the appropriate test results. For example I do alot of testing of Hair Samples (through an excellent laboratory) to help determine both toxic load as well as nutritional status. It is quite skilled work to interpret and implement a treatment plan based on these and other indicators and not many practitioners I know of have done these additional studies. I have often found that levels of Manganese, Selenium, Zinc and Molybydenum are inappropriate for the individual. These nutrients among others are very important for reproductive and generall health.
As with any other health and well-ness conditions, pre-conception care as well as treating fertility challenges is a PROCESS, not a quick fix. Without many exceptions those who pursue this type of guided care report feeling better than in a long time with many health conditions they presented with being under control or eliminated.
Happy reproducing!!!! Wendy Dumaresq.
Medical Herbalist, Natural Fertility Management Counsellor
wen...@wendywithlove.com